The phrase “he only treats you that way because you allow it” has been said many a time. I don’t recall anyone saying it regarding any dealings I was involved with {at least to my face} but I know some shit did occur {within my life} because I allowed it. I most definitely said this about people and their situations, to their face, to someone else and then back to them. Yup, I did. #BecauseIOwnMyShit
However, let’s switch it up a bit.
F those toxic relationships with significant others, because that’s usually when that phrase is brought up. How about you, what’s happening in your life? Are you allowing the world to get the dopest you in all of your glory? Are you allowing yourself to feel what you really feel and not how “society” is suggesting you to feel? Are you giving 100% to what you said you’d do {i.e. Your goals, plans, new year new me’s {lol} and your man.
Relax your mind and don’t get overwhelmed {because that might sound like a lot} however, there are real live superheroes in this world who do all of these on a daily basis; so remember it is possible.
So remember whatever is occuring in your life is based off of what you’re allowing. You have the power to change the narrative, you have the power to change your thoughts and you have the power to change your actions.
Don’t allow procrastination to rule your life because it will delay your progression. Don’t allow bum ass people to use you because you’ll end up being a used and abused bum ass right along with them. Don’t allow society to dictate your beliefs because you’ll be existing for them opposed to living for yourself.
~WorldWideWeez